1. “The role of a writer is not to say what we all can say, but what we are unable to say.” ~Anaïs Nin
2. “Writing is a socially acceptable form of schizophrenia.” ~E.L. Doctorow
3. “Don’t tell me the moon is shining; show me the glint of light on broken glass.” ~Anton Chekhov
4. “Write your first draft with your heart. Re-write with your head.” ~From the movie Finding Forrester
5. “Those who say it cannot be done should not interrupt those doing it.” ~ Chinese proverb
6. “You can’t wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club.” ~ Jack London
7. “Words – so innocent and powerless as they are, as standing in a dictionary, how potent for good and evil they become in the hands of one who knows how to combine them.” ~Nathaniel Hawthorne
8. “The only cure for writer’s block is insomnia.” ~ Merit Antares
9. “Don’t get it right, just get it written” ~ J. Thurber
10. “I’m not a very good writer, but I’m an excellent rewriter.” ~ James Michener
11. “You get ideas from daydreaming. You get ideas from being bored. You get ideas all the time. The only difference between writers and other people is we notice when we’re doing it.” ~ Neil Gaiman
12. “In writing, you can get by with almost anything as long as you motivate it properly.” ~ Catherine Spangler
13. “If I chance to talk a little wild, forgive me.” ~ William Shakespeare

Now, tell me…what are some of your favorite quotes (or advice) that have helped you through your more hazy days of writing?

I’m going to Vegas Ladies and Gents. Yup. I’m leaving Oct. 28 and not coming back until Nov. 4. Now I know most people say that three days is plenty of time to see the sights of Sin City. But since I’ll be there for a week (for a wedding), I thought I’d focus this week’s T13 on some hotspots I’m hoping to hit up. Feel free to add your two cents on places to see, skip, turn the other way, etc…I’m leaving my Frommers at home, so chime in!

1. Pussycat Dolls Lounge – Okay. I know this is sort of cheesy. But…it’s research. Yes, you heard me. Research. I’m writing a Snow White meets Pussycat Dolls burlesque-esque story, so this really would be research.
2. Adventuredome at Circus Circus (specifically Lazer Blast) – I’m going on the record to say that this one is not my idea. Hubs is the Best Man in his brother’s wedding and this sporting adventure is part of the bachelor/bachelorette festivities. I should note that I plan on drinking beforehand. Heavily.
3. Wasted Space at Hard Rock – This is Carey Hart’s nightclub and we have some real rockers (and a former N’Sync-er) attending the wedding event. So we’re on the VIP list at this fine establishment that Thursday night. I think I might be inclined to get me a a glass of Cristal. Or maybe just a cran & vodka. Alright, fine…a beer.
4. Payard Chocolate – Because Emily Ryan-Davis says this is the best place to buy chocolate. Even weird should-not-be-paired-with-chocolate chocolate. Like curry chocolate. Apparently it’s a must try.
5. Madame Tussaud’s “After Dark” – This sounds pretty cool. Live actors mingle with the wax figures to make for a frightful event where the lights are out at Madame Tussaud’s this Halloween season.
6. Jubilee at Bally’s – This is the epitome of a good old fashioned Vegas show. I’m hoping its better than Elizabeth Berkley in the faux-Goddess show in Showgirls. And yes, I did see that movie (and still bitter about losing those 2 hours of my life). Originally my vote for a show was for Thunder Down Under. But Hubs vetoed me.
7. Bellagio fountains – Hey–if George Clooney and Brad Pitt rested their elbows on the rail to watch the water show in Oceans Eleven (and Twelve and Thirteen)…you bet I’ll be there!
8. Hart & Huntington – I used to watch that show on TLC and I find the sound of a buzzing tattoo gun quite therapeutic. Plus I find something sexy about a man getting tatted up. Who knows…maybe I’ll walk away with some dainty little ink…what happens in Vegas…
9. The Venetian – I spent my honeymoon in Italy and a whole week alone in Venice. Now, I know the pumped in water in The Venetian won’t hold a dime to the real Grand Canal, but there’s something uber-romantic about being with the man you love, in a gondola, lazying down a canal.
10. The Eiffel Tower at Paris – Since I’ll probably never go to the real Eiffel Tower, I might as well settle for the next best thing.
11. Las Vegas sign – It’s a must-see, must-take-pic staple.
12. Fright Dome at Circus Circus – Five acres of fright zones, rides, freak shows, haunted houses, attractions…OMG I’m so stoked to go to this!!!
13. Casinos – Doesn’t matter which one. I’m not picky. Hell, I’ll probably only throw a quarter into a slot and call it a day. But you can’t go to Vegas and not spin the dice on something!

So, here it goes…13 things I bought this past week that are making me feel guilty:

1. Glitzy formal cocktail dress – There’s a reason for this. My brother-in-law is getting married this Halloween. In Vegas. The invitation said black tie. (I know, really?) I have dresses that could totally pass for this occasion. But what fun is that? It’s in V-E-G-A-S.
2. Glitzy formal cocktail dress – For my daughter. Who’s one. And because she’s just so stinkin’ cute and doesn’t have a wardrobe of suitable dresses.
3. These shoes – Again…V-E-G-A-S.
4. And these – See above
5. MAC nail polish – In Dark Angel (goth romantic dark lilac) and Vintage Vamp (rich deep retro wine). Because Fae raved about it on Twitter and at the time I didn’t think anything of the $12/bottle price tag.
6. Pedipeds – Gold shoes with cut-out stars for the little one. At a whopping $30+. Damn weddings.
7. New earbuds for my iPhone – Even though I already have a pair…these are special because they have a retractable cord. Yeah…cool, right?
8. My Writing Nook (iPhone app) – It was only $1.95, but apparently this app can sync up to the internet so I can write on the go. I haven’t test-driven it yet, but with NaNo coming up, I decided to be prepared for those moments when I’m standing in the grocery store line.
9. MiFi – Okay. I needed this one. At a $100 purchase price and then monthly fee for $60, I get a complete wireless internet connection for up to 5 wireless devices (5GB/month data plan). I can take it with me wherever I go and not have to worry about trying to find a free WiFi spot. I can even use it while Hubs is driving. Uber coolness people. And considering I canceled my internet service from Comcast (because our box got struck by lightning and they wanted to charge us to replace the box and charge a re-connection fee. Uh, no.). So this purchase was completely justified.
10. Books – Specifically Covet by JR Ward and Born of Night by Sherrilyn Kenyon. I have no problem spending money on books. The problem is that I have about 20 books already in my TBR pile so this purchase really could’ve waited.
11. Fudge Stripe Cookies – Like three boxes. And not on sale. If you’ve never tried these Keebler concoctions…you must. Trust me.
12. Head massager – They got me. Those annoying people at those annoying kiosk stands in the mall. This one was the spidery-looking head massager thing that felt oh so good when the gal tickled my head with it. Now my daughter likes to trap Elmo’s head with it so I haven’t had a chance to really use it. $15 down the drain thank you very much.
13. Asus 1008HA netbook – This was the biggie. The chimichanga of the I-really-don’t-need-this-but-I’m-going-to-get-it-anyway purchases. I have a laptop. A perfectly nice Sony Vaio (it’s pink!) that Hubs got me for my birthday. I’ve even worn the paint off the keys because I use it so much. But the thing is a whopper. I can’t transport it to save my life without also needing a deep tissue massage to work out the kinks in my shoulder. And with NaNo coming up, my writing needs to be portable. Plus I blame it on V-E-G-A-S. It’ll be sooooooo much easier to cart this little number around in Sin City instead of my Pink Monster Lady. The netbook comes in today and I can’t wait!

So there you go. Thirteen things I spent money on this week that I’m feeling a little bit guilty about even though some of them are quite justified. Tell me – am I the only one throwing money around left to right? Please tell me I’m not the only one with a weird obsession with Keebler Fudge Stripe Cookies…anyone?

Just signed up! This will be my first official NaNoWriMo (although I’ve participated in some of Romance Divas’ monthly WriMo’s just for fun). I’ve been outlining a story I’ve been saving up for November and hopefully it ends up being as good on paper as it is in my head.

The only problem I expect to encounter is the Vegas trip I have scheduled from 10/28-11/4. That’s four whole days of attempting decent word count in a city that’s not really synonymous with the term. Here’s hoping I don’t get ahead of myself!

Now–who’s with me?